Competition

Wikipedia defines Competition as "Competition is a contest between individuals, groups, animals, etc. for territory, a niche, or a location of resources. It arises whenever two or more parties strive for a goal which cannot be shared. Competition occurs naturally between living organisms which co-exist in the same environment. For example, animals compete over water supplies, food, and mates, etc. Humans compete for water, food, and mates, though when these needs are met deep rivalries often arise over the pursuit of wealth, prestige, and fame. Business is often associated with competition as most companies are in competition with at least one other firm over the same group of customers."

There is healthy competition, like Sandi and i have during the KIP hunt, our points don't really count for anything, we just do it for fun since we know all the spots in advance and how to plan our week to hit as many as possible. we poke at each other, but we don't really MEAN anything by it.

Then there is unhealthy competition. My favorite rule during these kinds of things, especially in forums, is "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all."

Thumper's Mama had it right.